Tuesday, April 14, 2009

Welcome to How to Get Back with Your Ex

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If you want to learn how to get back with your ex, it's going to take quite a bit more than just desire.


It's going to take knowledge. (It's also going to take time, patience, and a bit of work...)

Doing the same old things you've always done aren't going to get you there. As painful as it can be to admit this, the "same old things" are what got your marriage in trouble in the first place.

I'm not suggesting it's all your fault - I don't know the particular circumstances that brought difficulty to your relationship. But I do know that I've never seen a marriage in which just one person caused all the trouble.

Why am I telling you this?

It's because when you realize that both of you contributed to your marriage's problems, it becomes harder to play the "blame game". Blame (and its sibling, guilt) are the main reasons why marriages can't be restored. We get so caught up in determining what was whose fault that we lose sight of what's really important - getting back together and building a stronger, happier relationship.

The very first step to learning how to get back with your ex is letting go of the ugly blame game... even if your ex is still playing it. Blame clouds the mind - and you're going to need a clear head if you want to get your ex back.

Why? Because getting your ex back involves strategy. I know that sounds cold and manipulative, but it really isn't. The solution to any problem involves strategy, and difficulty in your marriage is no different.

Perhaps the best way to learn how to get back with your ex is through a course called Save the Marriage. I've not only recommended it to many friends and family members... I've used it myself to restore my marriage.

See, if your marriage is really in trouble (and if your partner has left you, it is), you don't have time to waste on marriage counseling, couples retreats, self-help books, and other resources that produce lukewarm results.

I like Save the Marriage for four main reasons:

  • The strategies can be used quickly. You can start saving your marriage in under an hour... unlike therapy, which can take months or even years.

  • Save the Marriage has a 90% success rate, compared to about 20% for marriage counseling and couples retreats.

  • It costs a fraction of what therapy and retreats will cost you... the total cost is less than a dinner out.

  • Your ex doesn't have to be on board when you begin using the course. Instead, it shows you how to get your partner interested in the relationship again.

If you really want to learn how to get back with your ex, I can't think of a resource that will help you do it more quickly and easily than Save the Marriage. For a small investment, you can be on your way toward restoring your relationship today - my 10 year marriage is living proof of that!

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